Personal Considerations In Relating To Others

You have to study a person or at least be aware of their persona in order to communicate with them, him or her, effectively.

Some people want to befriend you, but they handle everyone the same. Friendships and even relationships require personal attention. 

Some people talk about everything and anything publicly; whereas, others are private people. This has nothing to do with transparency, but with personal privacy.

When I am not approached respectfully I simply  do not respond because it isn’t difficult to discern that I respect myself and others.

Familiarity, even in families, isn’t always a plus because often family members don’t know each other as well as they think. 

I am amazed when someone presumes to speak for me about a matter when they have never spoken to me about that matter.

Relationships are built in time shared and on close observation, whether spiritually or personally, or whether near or far.

Shared blood does not necessarily make you good friends or “family.”

Let’s be more observant of each other, especially when you’re trying to forge a relationship with someone.

I have the most wonderful and rewarding conversations and interactions with some people here when they reach out to me through messenger, email or phone call, but not so much with others, even some family members. 

It’s not good to get too familiar with people that you don’t really know. Everyone doesn’t respond to the same stimuli or ideas or patterns. 

Often, it is true that “Familiarity breeds contempt.”

A GREAT DECEPTION!!!

I will always Honor my assignment concerning language skills because God appointed it to me approx. 35 years ago and stressed the importance of it for these days. Yes, it offends many, but others make the necessary corrections. In my research, I found that when a nation loses the command of its language that nation declines and comes to a state of confusion, as in the story of the Tower of Babel.

Every few months, the enemy inserts another language infraction, and people fall for it. He’s testing how far he can take you without your realizing what’s really going on. It’s the same tactics that I watched him use in the first cult that I was sent to close down. That leader would incorporate all kinds of unreasonable tactics in the services or in her relationships with the people in order to measure her control over them.

When did we start using Then for Than and vice versa!?!    Your for You’re!?!   There for Their!?!   And on and on!!!  Like the past tense of build is built...or “ed” is added to a word to make it past tense, not present or future tense.

I gave up on “I seen” instead of “I saw or I have seen” but God won’t let me because His people are also caught in the same trap, and things are going from bad to worse. They are exchanging proper English for error, seemingly, almost on purpose.  I heard Holy Spirit say that “Following ignorance is like following after sin; it blinds you.”

America does have a standardized/a formal language. Just any and everybody can’t decide to change it every few weeks on a whim. 

THE ENEMY IS LAUGHING BECAUSE HE HAS A GREATER DECEPTION ON THE WAY!!!

How can God be “perfecting those things concerning us” when we are willingly going backwards in so many areas? A religious mindset thinks that these things don’t matter as long as you can quote scripture, but when God gave me this assignment, He told me that He deserves better. “Since language is our primary tool for communicating, surely we can request an anointing to help us in this very crucial area as we apply ourselves.” (#MyBrandIsWisdom)

A good English book and Dictionary or Google services are great weapons.

Let’s all check ourselves for the Kingdom’s sake because we all have strengths and weaknesses. 

Yes, it takes an humble spirit to be corrected and a wise person to consider when a word is personal. I am a living witness...OUCH!!!

There’s a corresponding chapter in my book #MyBrandIsWisdom.